The most ludicrous moment in Sex & the City is when Jennifer Hudson tells Sarah Jessica Parker that she moved to New York to fall in love. As if falling in love couldn't be accomplished in her native St. Louis. Sex & the City was an entertaining movie and show, but it's almost like porn for women. It promotes the idea that the search for love is some sort of heroic journey instead of just another mundane thing that people do. Great love doesn't change the world. It may make a person happier or a little less lonely or it might do nothing for you. The world at large will remain unchanged. There are worse things than being alone. One of them is not being alone.